While We Search for Ways to Live We Forget About Life

Hi all,



It may take some time to read this post, but it may be the time to change your life.



I liked the following quote:

While we search for ways to live we forget about life



In the crowed of life, work, and responsibilities, we suddenly forget where we are going to?

And why we are doing what we are doing now?



life become boring and routine without any enthusiasm, and that is because life sides becomes unbalanced which makes family side as an example takes more time than work side or body side.



To reach to the balanced live which means the happiness in another word, you should be a perfect man! This is not possible.



So, we will try to have our lives more balanced by using best tools and techniques "Time management"







The first tool is: Writing down your personal objectives in life



Make sure to write it down and mention all life sides like family, career, health, religion … etc



Now sign it with your name.



Now you have a clear vision about what you are about to do in your life in all life sides



Let’s say that success which leads to the happiness is the balanced success that we make in our life sides



Like bird which cannot fly with a single wing, his success can be only done when he have his both wings work.



Let’s take an example:



a sales man who decided in his birthday to make a million dollar within a year, and he have made it, but he forgot to take care of his family and he lost his son as a result and get divorced from his wife …



Money worth nothing after all that, I think we are all agree, don’t you?



If we watch our lives, we will find that we take care of things which is less important than others while we should focus on another things which is more important



So, if you want to change your life, you should know first what success means to you from your point of view?



Think about it and write it down



I’m sure that some people will say that success is to make a lot of money, others may define success as the best level of living which make his/her significant needs satisfied.



What do you think, which of both thoughts is right?



You can read the following story to decide:



A rich broker from New York having his vacation on Costa Rica beach, in his first day he likes fish which he bought from a local fish seller and in the next day he need to buy fish from the same person again but the fish seller has sold all the fish, he asks the fish seller about his fish secret and he knows that the fisherman have a special place which he can get his delicious fish.



But the fisherman used to catch 5 or 6 fish a day



So, the broker advised him to catch more fishes so that he can make more money



But the fisherman told him that he wakes up late at 10:00 am then he plays with his kids and then go for fishing for about 1-2 hours and in the evening he has his dinner and spend time with his family or friends playing guitar…



"As you see I have a happy life which is full with activity and entertaining" fisherman man said



The broker said "you must catch more fish to reach the success"



He continued "You should wake early, and spend all your day fishing, then you can use the extra money you earned to bought a boat, within 2 years you can bought 5 - 6 boats and rent it to others, within 5 years you can build your own fish products with your brand name, after 7 years you can move to New York for marketing your products and be a millioner!"



"And why should I do all this" the fisher man said



"To make your life better and enjoy your rest of life" The broker said



The fisher man ends the story when he said "And that is what I’m doing now with my current life - enjoy -"



Most people will define success to make a lot of money.



Not for all people,



You need to define your own success which make your life better and make you happy.



A conclusion: success can be defined as it is the point that you are improving all your life sides balanced to reach the happiness





Resource: http://www.alltimemanager.com/?p=39